許多人說:很喜歡妳任何時候看起來都很開心的樣子..生活小事都可以快樂起來

事實上…….我曾經經歷過甚麼樣的人生……

我不曾在日記上提起過

我的樂觀不是天生………是因為後天環境造就

我最喜歡的一句話:當你覺得你的人生苦,那表示你還不夠苦

因為我到過地獄……………….所以現在我覺得….人間處處是天堂

只有自己有辦法讓自己不快樂……….誰也無法勉強

你想要一個甚麼樣的人生………只有你可以給自己囉

有許多朋友說:很羨慕妳閒雲野鶴般的生活

我就回:沒甚麼好羨慕……..如果你想……沒人能限制你…但你做得到嗎?

那得放下很多東西呦

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One day not too long ago the employees of a large company in St.Louis , Missouri returned from their lunch break and were greeted with a sign on the front door.
幾天前,在Missouri州的聖路易市一家大公司的職員們吃完午餐回到公司門口,看到一個牌子.

The sign said: "Yesterday the person who has been hindering your growth in this company passed away. We invite you to join the funeral in the room that has been prepared in the gym."
上面寫著: " 昨天那位妨礙你在公司成長的人去世了"公司在運動中心為他設置靈堂供同仁弔祭

 At first everyone was sad to hear that one of their colleagues haddied, but after a while they started getting curious about who this person might be.
這時每個員工都對這位逝去的同仁感到難過.可過了一回,他們開始好奇這位仁兄到底是誰?

The excitement grew as the employees arrived at the gym to pay the irlast respects.
他們帶著好奇心走到運動中心向死者致哀.

Everyone wondered: "Who is this person who was hindering my progress? Well, at least he's no longer here!"
每個人都在滴沽"這個人到底是誰呀?他怎麼會妨礙到我們的成長呢"?不過反正他已經不在了!

One by one the employees got closer to the coffin and when they looked inside it they suddenly became speechless. They stood over the coffin, shocked and in silence, as if someone had touched the deepest part of their soul.
然後每位員工慢慢靠近棺材時,當他們看過棺材後每個人瞬間無言.

"There was a mirror inside the coffin: everyone who looked inside it could see himself.
 "棺材中有一面鏡子: 探頭進去看的人必定會看到自己".

There was also a sign next to the mirror that said: "There is only one person who is capable to set limits to your growth: it is YOU." YOU are the only person who can revolutionize your life. You are the only person who can influence your happiness, your realization and your success.
鏡子旁邊還有一個牌子,上面是這麼寫的: "世界上只有一個人可以限制你的成長:那就是你自己" 只有你才可以改變你的人生,也只有你自己才能帶給你自己幸福快樂,讓自己無限成長.

You are the only person who can help yourself.

只有你自己才能幫助你.

Your life does not change when your boss changes, when your friends change, when your parents change,  when your company changes.
你的人生不會因為你換個老板,換了朋友,換了父母,換了公司而有任何改變.

Your life changes when YOU change, when you go beyond your limiting beliefs, when you realize that you are the only one responsible for your life. The most important relationship you can have is the one you have with yourself.
當你轉個念頭,當你認識到只有"你"自己才能對你自己一生負責,你的人生必將再起.